Owen Murphy was born in 1968, the first son of young parents whose lives were cut tragically short in a car accident when Owen was just three years old. Though the details are foggy, Owen has always held onto a single sharp memory from before the crash: his baby brother’s hand in his, the softness of it, and the sound of a lullaby that never quite leaves him.

He was adopted shortly after the accident by a working-class couple in Norfolk, Virginia. His adoptive father, Sean Murphy, was a Vietnam veteran and machinist at the Norfolk Naval Shipyard his mother, Delores, worked as a school nurse. Owen grew up in a modest, two-story house near the water, surrounded by the sounds of harbor horns and military flyovers. Two younger siblings, Maggie and Kyle, came in the years that followed, and while Owen loved them fiercely, he always felt slightly outside the circle, like a puzzle piece that didn’t quite belong.

From an early age, the Navy was less a choice and more a legacy. His grandfather had served in World War II, a sailor on the USS New Jersey, his father on the USS Constellation during the Vietnam war. Owen followed their path with pride and steel-eyed ambition. He graduated from the Naval Academy in Annapolis, fourth in his class, specializing in tactical operations and maritime leadership. He was deployed straight into the Persian Gulf at the tail end of the Iran-Iraq conflict, and soon after served during Operation Desert Storm. Rising quickly through the ranks, he took on roles in Operation Southern Watch and Desert Fox, gaining a reputation for calm under fire and sharp tactical insight. By his late twenties, he was a Lieutenant Commander with NATO experience under his belt, including a posting aboard a French vessel. After a term at the Naval War College, he was made Executive Officer of the USS Decatur, where he supported NATO operations during the Kosovo War. In 2001, he took command of the USS Calvin Graham, an Arleigh Burke-class destroyer, earning respect for his efficient leadership and unusually low casualty record.

His personal life was sacrificed along the way as he climbed the ranks with a calculated determination. He's never married his relationships, brief and respectful, are common but never lasting. Commitment to the Navy left little room for anything permanent. That, and the shadow he’s never managed to outrun: the missing brother.

For years, Owen searched quietly, sporadically — hospital records, social services files, dead ends. But then, in 2001, everything shifted. A televised report on international aid in war-torn Sudan caught his eye. The journalist was sharp, composed, compelling…and bore a face Owen recognized. His own.

The man’s name? Tad Blakeney, rising news anchor and global correspondent. Owen watched the segment four times that night, mute and still in the officer’s lounge aboard the Calvin Graham. A week later, his research turned up more: Thaddeus Blakeney IV was the right age, and had no known siblings, but he donated generously — and quietly — to multiple adoption advocacy programs and foster youth charities.

It was enough. Owen knew. He’d found his brother.

By spring 2002, Owen was preparing to reach out — his message carefully written but never sent. That summer, his ship was at sea when the first reports of Captain Trips broke out across the world.